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Enough is enough! A plea for civility.

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  • Started 7 months ago by Cathy Haley
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  1. Cathy Haley
    Member

    My name is Cathy Haley and I work in the village office in Riverside. I am also a resident of Riverside. This is the first time I have ever posted anything on the forum, but events that transpired in the office yesterday compel me to speak out.

    While I was working at the front counter of the village office, covering for both the building and finance departments during the lunch hour, I was verbally assaulted by not one, but two, irate men who apparently felt that it was perfectly acceptable to yell profanity and insults at me and my co-workers and behave in a manner that I can only describe as abusive, unreasonable and un-called-for. I am very thankful that the Riverside Police Department is right next door and that the police chief’s secretary happened to walk in while this scene was unfolding. She called for police backup and the officers responded right away.

    I have served you, the residents of this community, as a village employee for more than three years, and I have had some bad experiences with angry individuals, but what happened yesterday was, by far, the worst day I have had dealing with the public during my time as a village employee. My experience yesterday made me question whether I really want to continue working for the village and even why I bought my home here.

    One of the men who was raging at me yelled (among other things): “You’re what’s wrong with America! You’re the reason there’s so much unemployment! Big government won’t cooperate with small business owners and nothing can get done!” The reason for his rage? He is a roofing contractor who wanted a permit for a job in the village. The problem? His license, liability insurance and surety bond were all lapsed and the village does not issue permits for work unless a contractor is licensed, bonded and insured. This procedure is in place for the protection of you and me, the residents.

    The other man is a resident of Riverside who owns a lot of fancy cars and a house in Michigan. Apparently he believes that gives him the right to be abusive and crude to anyone and everyone. I won’t go into further detail regarding the racist remarks he made or his use of profanity, but I have to say that I’m really tired of residents walking through the door of the village office and dumping on me about the outrageous taxes they pay and how little the village does for them. I am a resident too. I pay taxes also.

    And guess what, over 84% of the taxes you and I pay go to other taxing bodies such as Riverside School District 96, Riverside-Brookfield HS District 208, the Metropolitan Water Reclamation District, the Des Plaines Valley Mosquito Abatement District, Riverside Township, the Cook County Forest Preserve District, etc. We just received the second installment of the 2010 property tax bill at our house. I’m sure you did too. Please take a look at your property tax bill and become more informed about where your tax dollars go before you come into the village office and insult me and my co-workers about how much you pay us and how little we do. We all pay taxes and we all work hard.

    The second man’s problem? He and his wife did not purchase vehicle stickers for 4 of the 9 cars they own and keep in Riverside. I don’t know why they didn’t purchase the stickers, but for some reason, the man felt compelled to come into the office and abuse the staff after receiving a follow up letter from the finance department. His visit came hot-on-the-heals of a long, abusive phone call to another staff member. If the budget allows, I recommend the village board consider purchasing audio recording equipment like the police dispatch center uses.

    Are Riverside vehicle stickers expensive? Yes, they are. We have two cars at our house and we purchase stickers for them every year. Do I wish Riverside vehicle stickers were less expensive? Yes, I do; but I look at it this way. Vehicle sticker fees are a tax that we (the residents) pay directly to the village. The village does not have to share these funds with any other taxing body. 100% of vehicle sticker fees are retained by the village and used to fund village projects and initiatives. In a community where property taxes are the main revenue source for municipal government, this funding is crucial to village operations. A person who owns 9 cars and a second home out of state, can surely afford to buy vehicle stickers.

    District 96 has an operating budget of $22,000,000, and a large staff of fine educators and professionals whom I respect a great deal. They serve approximately 1,500 students 185 days a year, not including summer school. The Village has an operating budget of about $8,000,000, a significantly smaller staff, and serves almost 9,000 residents with fire, police and public works services 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. The village also provides recreation programming, building, finance and administrative services. Everyone on the village staff works hard every day, with increasingly limited resources, to be responsive to the needs of this community, yet we serve you, our friends and neighbors, in an increasingly hostile climate.

    The economy is bad. Many of us are experiencing financial and other stresses in our work and personal lives, but that is no excuse for behaving in such an abusive manner. If you have a problem with a village ordinance, please don’t come into the office and take out your frustration on the staff. Write a letter to the village board of trustees. Address the board at a meeting. Meetings are held on the 1st and 3rd Monday of each month in Room 4 of the Township Hall.

    In 2009, I suffered a dislocated knee that required major surgery and 12 weeks on crutches as the result of an encounter with an unleashed dog while walking on a public sidewalk here in the village. As I was down on the ground, the man who owns the dog called out to me to “Quit faking!” I had to call 911 myself. He left the scene before the ambulance arrived. He has never apologized. How would you feel if you or someone in your family had been treated this way?

    Last year, I had to confront a member of the village board and tell him to stop touching me because it made me very uncomfortable. He responded in a very threatening manner. This same individual also let himself into my home, uninvited, through an unlocked door while I was incapacitated after my knee surgery. He has never offered a sincere apology for his actions. How would you feel if someone treated you, your wife or your daughter this way? These things really happened. If you don’t believe me, you can FOIA the police reports.

    Yesterday, two men behaved in a completely outrageous and abusive manner toward me and my co-workers yet again. Enough is enough! According to my property tax bill, I live in the Village of Riverside, but increasingly, it feels like the set of the Jerry Springer Show. Please change the channel. Watch something uplifting. Say hello to your neighbors. Smile at people you pass on the street. No employee in the public or private sector deserves to be treated the way I was treated yesterday. No one has a right to touch me or enter my home without my permission. Each of us must take responsibility for our actions and consider how the way we behave impacts others.

    Riverside is an exceptional community with many amazing and wonderful people. We have so much to be thankful for, despite the tough times that many of us are experiencing. This is my personal appeal to all Riverside residents: Please be civil to your village staff, your village board, your children’s teachers and one another. Treat others as you would want them to treat you or someone else you care about.

    Posted Thursday Oct 6, 2011 06:55 #
  2. bensells
    Member

    This is appalling. Cathy Haley is a treasure to this Village who has given countless hours of volunteer time in addition to her employment to make our Village a better place. Neither she nor any other member of Village staff should be treated in such a cheap and disrespectful manner.

    Staff is not responsible for the decisions of the Village government. If residents have complaints about Village government or Village ordinances, the proper place to register those complaints is with their elected officials. You can contact the Village Board here:

    http://bit.ly/qRbfcG

    Bullying and abuse, verbal or otherwise, of Village staff will not be tolerated. They don't deserve it, and they are not expected to take it. The ugliness described by Ms. Haley only serves to coarsen the fabric of our daily lives at a time we all could use a bit more beauty and appreciation. Differing opinions should be encouraged, and are necessary to moving our Village forward, but we owe it to one another to disagree without being disagreeable.

    If residents have concerns or complaints about Village government, I encourage them to contact the Village Board. I can be reached at bsells@riverside.il.us.

    Posted Thursday Oct 6, 2011 09:46 #
  3. chrisrobling
    Member

    dear cathy,

    i agree with trustee ben sells.

    you deserve none of this treatment.

    thank you for your post.

    sincerely, chris r

    Posted Thursday Oct 6, 2011 10:24 #
  4. Cathy,

    I have often remarked on how professional, fair, and poised you always are - especially in the face(s!) of adversity. Your post is yet another example.

    Thanks for everything you do.

    Robin

    Posted Thursday Oct 6, 2011 13:39 #
  5. uncle jack
    Member

    uncle jack, I deleted your post as it adds little to the discussion.

    Thank you,
    Chris Hajer
    chrishajer@gmail.com

    Posted Thursday Oct 6, 2011 16:24 #
  6. chrisrobling
    Member

    way to go, chris !
    keep the standards up -- thank you.

    Posted Friday Oct 7, 2011 09:04 #
  7. Doug Pollock
    Member

    Cathy - I applaud your courage in coming forward with this information and I want to show my support. I am uncomfortable posting on this forum but I appreciate its availability as a means to communicate within our community. You have raised some very serious issues and I hope that all other readers of this forum will post a message of support.

    The actions you described of our fellow residents is disheartening. As for the contractor, if he was representing a resident of Riverside, that resident should be told of his behavior. I would fire a contractor immediately if I knew he behaved in that manner. I would expect most other Riversiders would feel the same (except maybe the guy with the 9 cars and 5 vehicle stickers).

    I am most offended, however, by your comments about one of our elected officials. The courage you have shown in bringing this forward is an obvious sign of the seriousness of this situation. You have put yourself in a most precarious situation and I want you to know your community supports you. What you have described is appalling. A superior has created a hostile work environment and, when confronted, has responded in a “threatening manner”. If this were an employee of the Village, I presume a serious response would result. I hope we have held our elected officials to the same standards of behavior and discipline and that you are satisfied with whatever action has been taken.

    In closing, Cathy please know that your community is better than the few who choose to harass Village employees and ignore distressed residents. And most importantly, please know that your community supports you and will not tolerate abusive behavior from residents, from contractors and most especially, from our elected officials. I look forward to others weighing in on this thread.

    Posted Friday Oct 7, 2011 10:48 #
  8. Nancy S. Smith
    Member

    Cathy-
    I, too, want to express my support for you(as well as the rest of the village employees)who work so hard on behalf of all residents. It seems you reached a breaking point and finally had to express yourself concerning the lack of civility you and your colleagues have experienced. I applaud you for coming forward.

    The coarsening of our public discourse and lack of manners is very troubling. While it is a difficult time for most everyone, it simply doesn't warrant the type of behavior to which you have been subjected. I agree with Doug Pollock that the homeowner who is working with the contractor should be informed of his behavior. It is outrageous that he exhibited such behavior when not taking personal responsibility for his own work obligations.

    There is no understanding the '9 car' resident and his misanthropic behavior toward you and the rest of the staff.

    Like Mr. Pollock, what I find very disturbing (frankly creepy) is the actions of the village official you referenced. I do not understand why such behavior has not previously been made public. As a taxpayer I fear the possiblity of a lawsuit. It is unconscionable behavior and needs to be made public and perhaps reviewed more thoroughly. If no one else files for a FOIA in the next week, I will do so.

    Posted Friday Oct 7, 2011 11:49 #
  9. LouisT
    Member

    As a long time resident, I have watched the forum for some time, enjoying the discussion. I have never been motivated enough to contribute until I saw this post.

    The way some residents treat the employees of the Village amazes me. My experience is that the employees of the Village work diligently to make the Village a better place. This includes the staff at the Village Hall (what little there is), the members of the Police Department, Public Works employees, Recreation Staff and our Part Time Firefighters. Aside from the police officers (who certainly deserve more respect then they typically receive), the women manning the front desk of the Village Hall seem to be the target of more abuse than other Village Employees. This is outrageous and just wrong. Each one does their very best to help everyone who comes to their window. I have been there to see them go out of their way to help out residents. Ben couldn’t be more correct, the Village staff is not responsible for the decisions of the Village government and they are not doing their job if they don’t apply the policy determined by the board equally and fairly.

    The actions of an elected official described in the post are sad, at best. However a reaction that is threatening is unconscionable. No Village official has the right to treat anyone that way. The Village Manager, and all of his staff, seem to promote a professional working environment. The described actions of an elected official are unprofessional at best.

    While it is shameful that Cathy was exposed to this, and Ben is once again correct that this conduct cannot be tolerated, let us hope that this is the end of this type of outrageous behavior. The employees of this Village deserve better.

    Posted Friday Oct 7, 2011 12:06 #
  10. Jerry Buttimer
    Member

    Ms. Haley, I hope the community thanks you for your post. I recall a former trustee saying "Riverside, the town of winding roads and twisted minds". She was referring to some of us wacky residents. Now it appears we may have elected one with very poor judgment and a disregard for civility and law.

    If true, whoever it is should resign before this creates mistrust of the entire board. This can breed contempt like Herbst brought to RB and our community cannot afford the additional loss of credibility and reputation.

    Posted Friday Oct 7, 2011 14:11 #

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